Girls, girls, girls, let’s face it, guys don’t long for the perfect gift for valentine’s day. In fact, there’s only one thing they really want to do which is...to make you happy. (Ok, maybe two things)

So how can you do something for them this Valentine’s Day? Well, we’re about to reveal a few secrets about what men really want and how you can treat yourself as well as treating him!

A moan free night - Admit it, us women like a good whinge, it’s natural. But how about giving him a night off? He doesn’t really want to listen to who’s broken up with who and why you’ve fallen out with what’s her name. Let him charge his emotional batteries and save the moans for the 15th!

To know what you want - Most men succumb to the pressure of valentine’s day. From finding the most romantic gift to planning the perfect evening, they do have a lot on their plate, bless them. So why not drop a few hints about what you really want, then you can thank them later.

Spoil him – If you really love your man, you could always be a lad for the day. How about sitting through a football match with a bottle of beer and some pizza? He’ll be in his element and you can show him how much you care. (Thank goodness Valentine’s is only once a year)

A new video game – There’s no point in pretending he wants a cuddly teddy or a box of chocolates. Why not spend your hard earned cash on something he’ll actually use. X-Box, Play Station, Nintendo – whatever he’s into, you know it makes sense.

A joint massage – Isn’t it genius! How often do you take time out to get a massage? Let alone a joint massage. Alternatively, why not give our Massage Therapy Kit a go, you can practice on each other in the comfort of your own home.

A sexy outfit – You know he loves it when you dress up for him. This way you get some new undies and heels whilst he gets to enjoy the view. He’ll be delighted at the effort you’ve put in.